Last Goodbye
- Yesterday, I drove down to Hampshire to scatter my father's ashes in the sea. Maureen, my Dad's second wife and I were able to fulfill my Dad's final wishes. He had a great love of the sea, having served in the Royal Navy, and then the Submarine Service during WW2. He spent many years sailing during his long retirement. Dad was a one-off and much loved. I miss him terribly. I took a small posy of forget-me-nots and bluebells to scatter on the sea.
- Eternal Father, strong to save,
- Whose arm hath bound the restless wave,
- Who bidd'st the mighty ocean deep
- Its own appointed limits keep;
- Oh, hear us when we cry to Thee,
- For those in peril on the sea!
- O Christ! Whose voice the waters heard
- And hushed their raging at Thy word,
- Who walkedst on the foaming deep,
- And calm amidst its rage didst sleep;
- Oh, hear us when we cry to Thee,
- For those in peril on the sea!
- Most Holy Spirit! Who didst brood
- Upon the chaos dark and rude,
- And bid its angry tumult cease,
- And give, for wild confusion, peace;
- Oh, hear us when we cry to Thee,
- For those in peril on the sea!
- O Trinity of love and power!
- Our brethren shield in danger's hour;
- From rock and tempest, fire and foe,
- Protect them wheresoe'er they go;
- Thus evermore shall rise to Thee
- Glad hymns of praise from land and sea.
memories and love are eternity especially derived from parents.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Susana
DeleteAww, what a great way to carry out his last wishes. My grandad, an awkward old sod, demanded to be scattered all over the place, I think in about 7 different locations o.O
ReplyDeleteIt was nice to see Maureen again and to give Dad the send off he wanted. My Mum died a few years ago. She asked to have her ashes scattered on Dartmoor. I was happy to be able to do that for her, too.
DeleteWhat a memorable thing to do. There will be always a little place in your heart for him.
ReplyDeleteHugs
Thank you Kay!
DeleteThat was really beautiful, Sue. I'm glad you got to do someting so special that would have meant a lot to your dad. Your touching tribute and the hymn brought tears to my eyes. Hugs to you!
ReplyDeleteHi Debora
DeleteIt is a hymn I always find incredibly moving, too.
How wonderful that you and Maureen were able to carry out your Dad's last wishes together and what a lovely idea to scatter the forget me nots and bluebells, as well. God's Blessings for those who mourn. xoxo, Janice
ReplyDeleteThank you, Janice!
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